Hello, for the sake of ease and wanting to keep to anonymous I will refer to myself simply as “I”

This blog is about me, I have just found that my wife is having an affair. Whilst the affair is over now my life needs to be rebuilt from the foundations up, and even the foundations feel al little unsteady. I actually blog under my real name but it is a very light-hearted and public me which I will keep separate from the content on here. If nothing else I intend to use the internet as a type of therapy and if your reading this I guess you are looking for a similar escape.



5 thoughts on “About

  1. I have struggled with the idea that I am spineless and weak for staying with my husband after his affair. But it is not weakness. It takes strength to leave, sure, but it also takes tremendous courage to stay and face the raging roller coaster ride of healing together. Glad you are blogging among us. We are great bloggin community of people who are sorting out our feelings together.

    Grace and peace to you,

    1. Thank you for your comment, Of course I am only just finding out how much real strength it takes to stay. Not that I am suggesting it is any easier to leave and start again. I find it helps me to write about things, but it is a balance between getting my feelings in order to help me improve my life and avoiding wallowing in self pity, I hope you enjoy reading on here.
      Kind regards “I”

  2. I don’t think there’s anything weak about you choosing to continue to love your wife despite her actions; on the contrary, I think it’s a testament to the absolute power and strength of your love for her.


    1. Hi, Thank you for your comment, When I wrote this it felt like weakness, I have since learned of course that the strength needed to stay and forgive her actions is immense,
      Warm Regards “I”

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