Time to go…

I miss my wife, I miss being in love. For a while after her affair I filled one of the voids that loneliness created by writing this blog and reading those posted by others. Sometimes it helped but looking back I think it did more harm than good, encouraging an obsessive thought pattern but I…

Cannons and beaches

The noise in my head was deafening....     “Subconsciously my brain raced back through time to find a comparable sound, after all such noises are frightening and there is safety in familiarity; the only reference point to be found came from a time twenty-five years past when as a small child I had wrestled free…

Total Recall, what dreams are made of….

If memories are the result of our brains ability to recall something that has happened to us in the past where does that leave fake memories?  By fake memories I do not mean things that happened to us whilst we were being deceived or mislead, those things after all still actually happened and the event…

Once upon a time…

Writing about infidelity is not something I choose to do because I think it is a fascinating topic that is in need of deep exploration and this blog is not full of pictures like the blogs that you might see from someone sharing their enthusiasm of cooking or walking in the woods during the last…

My Moral Obligations..(really who wrote this)

Sometimes people get a little upset about things that are written. More often than not because they assume, quite wrongly for the most part, that people all think and feel the same. One thing I have come to realise during writing this blog is that whilst there is a common theme amongst those who stop…

Is Your blog a secret ?

Does your partner know about your blog? Mine doesn’t and I started to ask myself recently if keeping a secret blog is akin to cheating. Now I am quite aware that it is nothing in comparison to my wife’s affair and doesn’t even constitute an emotional attachment but it is a secret and it remains…